<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8250107103602415184</id><updated>2012-01-06T07:52:19.643-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Tinanow</title><subtitle type='html'>Taking the time to ponder education, body, mindfulness, aging, parenting, growth and the therapeutic process.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tinanow.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8250107103602415184/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tinanow.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>CC</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ty0mNbRl_Og/Sc233nyqfvI/AAAAAAAAAAY/b-GIL3gSFmk/S220/CCPJ.aspx'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8250107103602415184.post-8144047664189275193</id><published>2012-01-01T19:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-01T19:57:39.534-08:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>January 1st. Such a time of new beginnings. Tonight, I am getting ready for another quarter of teaching and learning. I tend to do both, some learning in my teaching, some learning in my counseling, and some teaching, either purposely, or accidentally. I am 56 years old, trying to support a 17 year old, a 12 year old, a retired partner, and myself by working multiple jobs. This quarter, I am teaching an ethics class, and realized that, as a clinician, it is imperative that I take time to take care of myself so that I can take care of others. According to Alan Marlatt(?) and others, the four cornerstones of sustained recovery are: Tools, Accountabilty, Structure and Support. Well, I certainly have the tools. With my schedule, I am too structured.  I am accountable to many professionally, and only to my family personally. I have limited support as I am usually driving or working. Thus this blog is born. I hope that it assists me in creating accountability, either to persons who end up following, or just to the amorphous internet.  As a caretaker, it is difficult to prioritize my own needs, and I hope this blog becomes a way for me to focus on my self care in the coming year. I am looking forward to taking time to be more visible as me, warts and all.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8250107103602415184-8144047664189275193?l=tinanow.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tinanow.blogspot.com/feeds/8144047664189275193/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tinanow.blogspot.com/2012/01/january-1st.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8250107103602415184/posts/default/8144047664189275193'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8250107103602415184/posts/default/8144047664189275193'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tinanow.blogspot.com/2012/01/january-1st.html' title=''/><author><name>CC</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ty0mNbRl_Og/Sc233nyqfvI/AAAAAAAAAAY/b-GIL3gSFmk/S220/CCPJ.aspx'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
